The basic theory

The main theory of this site can be fairly simply explained. When the contraceptive pill was first developed it was tested for side effects dangerous to health but not for changes to a woman's physiology, emotional and mental states. The theory proposes that the pill, usually estrogen and progesterone in fact have profound changes to women because they are not actual drugs but bodily hormones.

So tinkering with the balance of hormones in the body can affect a person in many ways. When you suddenly introduce a contraceptive to a large portion of the population of women in developed countries those side effects can profoundly change society. One analogy is if you drugged a large percentage of the population with a chemical such as valium then this would change society as so many people would act differently. In the same way estrogen and progesterone might affect women so much as to profoundly change our society.

Why didn't anyone notice?

Most people ask this question, that if a drug suddenly changed so many people and made them act differently, why didn't those people realise they were drugged and stop taking it? I believe the answer to this lies in the way I first thought of this theory. In 1993 I was doing regular exercise at a gym, and as is typical, some people at gyms take steroids. This is usually a large dose of testosterone and related chemicals. I noticed at the time that bodybuilders who take testosterone often have personality changes. On reading more about this I found that this is quite common. Estrogen in the pill however has a similar effect on women.

So if women are taking estrogen in a contraceptive then they might find it hard to see how it affects them because their own estrogen levels sometimes go up and down naturally.

Also we have lived with these effects for decades now, and rarely see any women who didn't take estrogen as a contraceptive. So we don't have a ready sample of women to compare their behavior against. Exceptions might be women who refused to take the pill for religious or because of side effects, women in countries where is is banned and so on. So women who didn't take estrogen are now as rare as perhaps men today who take steroids, so their impact on society, once dominant is now insignificant. During this same time period society has gone from divorce being rare to being commonplace.

This has been noticed by other, particular in the Roman Catholic church. However they see contraception as an effect of an immoral society rather than the cause of one, as I theorize here.

The idea of a chemical or drug changing people in a society is not new. For example some people believe that fluoride affects the way people act on a mass scale. More recently estrogen is suspected of polluting society in a different way, in cosmetics. While I do not agree with this, it is natural for a society to be suspicious of radical changes. In fact conservatism is avoiding such risks. Oddly enough no one seems to have suspected estrogen of any of these side effects even though it is probably the most widely prescribed drug to women.

One of the reasons I took so long to put forward this theory is that no one else had done so. So I assumed for a long time there were reasons why none of this could be true. After having researched this for 14 years though I haven't seen such evidence against the theory, and believe the evidence for it continues to increase 

Do we know how estrogen affects women?

There is only anecdotal evidence. However there is a lot of evidence on how males taking sex hormones can be affected. This is because bodybuilders and athletes often take steroids, which are based on testosterone, and its effects have been studied. From my own experience and reading there is anecdotal evidence (not proof) the following occurs in people who take steroids, including testosterone.

1. A flattening of the personality. Bodybuilders often find their emotions are affected by testosterone. Mood swings are less pronounced and an abnormal settling into a narrow range of emotions occurs. This is because the emotions are strongly bound up with testosterone in a male. For example if a male is in a dominant position such as winning a football match their testosterone soars. If they are in a submissive position such as being weak, a subordinate position at work and so on their testosterone declines. In fact the body can change the level of testosterone quickly according to circumstances, and this is also seen in other animals such as monkeys. So the body uses its ability to manipulate the body's level of testosterone and this affects a person's personality. So if a bodybuilder takes testosterone they lose this ability to change their emotional state to some degree, resulting in a flattening of emotions.

2. Emotional outbursts. The high levels of testosterone cause a bodybuilder to display emotions such as aggression, increased confidence with women, anger ('roid rage), confidence and so on. This can be inappropriate as the testosterone they have injected changes their personality in ways that may not suit the situation. So a bodybuilder might have problems in fighting, explosive anger, sexual harassment, and so on. A good example of this was Arnold Schwarzenegger and how he got into trouble with women while taking steroids. Also there have been cases of security personnel and bouncers at night clubs hurting, even killing people in fights from 'roid rage.

3. Physical changes. Testosterone actually physically changes a male. If he is prone to baldness it can be accelerated. As is well known steroids increase stamina and muscle growth which is why athletes get caught taking them in sporting events. They also increase water retention in the body making the face for example seem more puffy, which can also be interpreted as looking more attractive to women. There is also evidence large amounts of testosterone make changes in the brain, increasing a male's ability to talk to and seduce women. Most of these effects cannot be reversed, and after time the person who takes testosterone becomes permanently different.

4. Ignorance. Many people who take testosterone and steroids don't realise these side effects exist, particularly in personality. This is probably because taking a bodily hormone is a fundamental change in ourselves and we are used to our hormonal levels changing. Because testosterone is a natural hormone then we have difficulty in telling exactly how it is affecting us in higher doses. Consequently a bodybuilder even though he might be aware of the side effects has to fight the feeling that his changed emotions are not natural. So instead of realising he is more prone to anger he might feel people are being more annoying to him. Such emotional problems can isolate the steroid taker and break up friendships without them realising why it is happening.

5. Relationships. Friends of someone taking testosterone can find their behaviour puzzling or annoying. Because they are more constantly aggressive someone more timid can fee threatened or feel their interests as friends are no longer the same. On testosterone a person might be much more obsessed with sex and a female partner might find this unnatural at that point in their relationship. So this changing of a bodybuilder's emotions can cause a rift between them and other people not taking it.

6. Hormonal variations. A person taking steroids can develop resistence to it and so at times act as though they have less testosterone than a normal person would. So they might at times act in the opposite way to these symptoms. Also they often have to not take steroids to reduce this resistence and it takes time for their natural testosterone flow to resume. This is because when someone takes testosterone the testicles stop producing it and shrink, and it takes time for them to start working again. So someone taking steroids might have times when it is working well and other times when they are not taking it, which can make for even larger changes in mood, personality, etc.

7. Marriages might break up. A married couple usually goes through a more intense sexual period and then later this declines. So a man might have lower testosterone normally because he has already found his mate for procreation and so testosterone is not needed to urge the man to find another woman. Also as children are being raised it becomes less necessary to have sex, particularly if more children are not desired. So historically people used abstinence as birth control, and combined with the rhythm method of having sex when a woman was infertile it worked quite well. Until recently the only other way to avoid procreation this was using some kind of sheath like a condom. Because this was not a drug though it had little effect on society, at least one people's emotions. So a man on testosterone might constantly be looking at other woman, causing jealousy in his mate, having affairs, and probably losing the love between them. So such a society might have fewer marriages and children, people stay single to have multiple sexual partners, divorce is more common, love is less a factor in relationships and physical desire is more important, and so on.

 

Why are the effects of testosterone relevant to estrogen?

Because estrogen and testosterone are very similar chemically. Also every woman has some testosterone in their body and every male has some estrogen. In a male this happens by a process called aromatization in which estrogen forms from testosterone, and this happens more and more as a male grows older. So for both sexes they are affected by both hormones. In this case then the level of testosterone in a woman might affect their personality as more testosterone is produced in them. The above side effects of testosterone in males are quite extensive but we don't notice this because hardly anyone takes steroids. However if we gave nearly every male in a society testosterone then we would see these changes in nearly everyone, and this could potentially change our society. Imagine for example if nearly every male had 'roid rage and attacked people physically when they got into an argument. Of course some people can control this, but a society is often based people being relatively timid and submissive rather than aggressive.

In fact this is actually being proposed, for men to take testosterone for birth control just as women take estrogen. This is because when a male takes steroids he in infertile. So by giving males the equivalent of a dost of steroids it would be impossible for him to make a woman pregnant.

So how would testosterone change society?

It is difficult to predict this because no studies have been done, but assuming a male contraceptive would make many people act like bodybuilders then:

1. Males would become far more sex obsessed at all ages. So our society would become far more sexually orientated in advertising and dress.

2. Males would be more aggressive sexually. Steroids are often implicated in rape so the numbers of rape and sexual harassment might soar.

3. Males would look different. Typically they would become leaner, more muscular, and also there are indication the rates of many diseases such as heart attacks and cancer might drop. This is because testosterone can boost the immune system. Also testosterone reduces fat which improves the physique but puts some bulk back on in water retention.

4. Preferences might change. Because testosterone changes the emotions people might want to watch different movies, talk about different things, read different books, and so on.

 

So why would testosterone be considered as a contraceptive with these side effects?

 

Because these side effects are not tested for in this use. While the effects of testosterone are well known to anyone who has taken it researchers have no easy way to measure any of this. Consequently the potential risks of widespread testosterone use has not been well researched.

So how is this relevant to contraception in women?

Because estrogen and testosterone are so similar it may be that the scenario I described with testosterone already happened in a similar way with women starting around the 1960's for many countries. So the effects of estrogen as I will show may have changed women in ways similar to how testosterone changes men, hence changing our society.

1. A flattening of the personality. In the same way as with testosterone, taking estrogen should alter the emotions in a woman. So a woman on a certain level of estrogen might have their emotions change, which could make other people, particularly males act differently towards them. Usually a woman's estrogen levels would fluctuate according to circumstances like a man's would. So in a submissive environment such as being married estrogen might be lower and when aggression is needed such as in finding a mate the estrogen might surge. So this can be the same in a female as a male, hormones regulated by the body to change their behaviour according to circumstances.

2. Emotional outbursts. If it has the same effect as testosterone, estrogen might cause women to lose their temper more often, act more aggressively, fight, and so on. So the use of contraceptives over time might have increased household violence. A man might typically expect a wife a girlfriend for example to reduce their estrogen level as they settle down, but the estrogen in contraceptives keeps it at much higher levels. Consequently a woman might be more aggressive, more self confident, get more angry than the male expects, causing fights. This can also have a positive effect as this aggression and self confidence can urge a woman into dominating a relationship, having a career and so on. Since the 1960's women have gone from hardly being in the workforce to virtually dominating it in many areas. So this estrogen might have changed our society so female dominate much of it instead of being traditionally submissive. It is not the intention here to assert the women's place is in the home or not, but to explore the idea that women do different things today, including work, perhaps from the effects of estrogen, not their own natural ambitions.

3. Physical changes. Estrogen is the hormone that causes a female child to become a woman and attractive to men. If it has a similar effect to testosterone then this artificial increase in estrogen levels might make women more feminine looking, more physically attractive, wider hipped, larger breasted etc. Also with water retention as with testosterone this would tend to change the physique shape and face, making them more attractive.

The result might be the equivalent of much of the female population becoming much more sexually attractive than their male counterpart, unless he took testosterone. So this could have a sexualising effect on society because since women are more attractive, men are more distracted and the female form becomes more and more effective when used in advertising. So this estrogen could transform society from where sex is not mentioned on TV, music, where people dress conservatively to where sex is accentuated on TV and in movies, sexual discussions happen more frequently amongst males as they notice these women more, etc. As with men once women had taken estrogen these changes would be permanent so there might be a strain in relationships where women more often seem "too good" or too attractive for a man who before might have been naturally a better match to them.

4. Ignorance. Because these hormonal changes are so similar to natural hormone surges it is more difficult for women to separate these as unnatural changes and so they tend to act more differently. So a woman might find herself thinking more sexually taking the pill but this might be masked by becoming sexually active or being in a relationship and so they think they are acting normally and not because of the estrogen. So a male might think a woman is acting strangely and end a relationship so a woman might find herself single or regularly being dumped, and attribute this to the fault of the men or some other fault in themselves. So at a critical time in a relationship the estrogen might distort sexual interactions, and making love and marriage less likely.

As a good example the sexual revolution in the 1960's might have been caused by estrogen rather than estrogen enabling easier contraception. When the pill came out there was a huge change in society with free love, but essentially condoms were also able to prevent contraction. So using a condom had not made society embrace free love, promiscuity and the like even though it could enable nearly the same lifestyle. Also the estrogen levels in the first contraceptive pills were much higher and so all these effects might be far more pronounced. People however saw this as a change in society perhaps brought about by technology changing our lives, and so someone taking the pill might assume their emotions and desires were natural and their parents were unnatural in their aversion to this lifestyle.

This situation is harder to see now since most parents also grew up in relationships using estrogen. One difference is most are either divorced or estranged in some way but before the 60's most marriages were relatively harmonious and stable. We can see though that other countries that didn't use the pill or banned it didn't have this same surge of sexual promiscuity and divorce, such as Japan, the Middle East, Ireland, etc.

5. Relationships. If estrogen works in a similar way to testosterone we should see a widening rift between males and females, not only in marriage and relationships but in friendships. A woman might feel more tempted to have a one night stand because like with testosterone the increased sexual hormone would be at a higher level than prudent when seeing men all the time socially and at work. So women not on the pill such as wanting to remain virgins would find a rift between them and their friends on estrogen. Also there would be a rift between girls who have not taken the pill and those who have. So younger women might find themselves under peer pressure to engage in premarital sex from other friends on estrogen. It need not even be from friends but peer pressure from the media, advertisements, movies, celebrities and so on. So before estrogen women might have had peer pressure to avoid premarital sex today the urge of estrogen shows women craving it, acting on impulse and the peer pressure is to do it as well. Once a girl does it then it is likely they would take estrogen as well and so the cycle continues.

Hormonal variations. Hormones may vary in a woman because, like taking steroids they have part of the month free from taking the Pill. So in this time the natural estrogen and progesterone levels struggle to return to normal, but becaue this has atrophied to some degree the result can be unbalanced hormones. Then when the Pill is resumed the receptors for it, like with steroids are refreshed and so it works better until resistance builds up again through the month. The effect then might be like a hormonal roller coaster.

6. Marriages break up. As mentioned earlier testosterone typically declines in a husband because the relationship should settle down into child rearing rather than eroticism. Instead though the taking of estrogen keeps a woman at a higher desire for sex, or in some cases (as with testosterone) it might have the opposite affect and reduce artificially a woman's desire for sex. So this friction between a woman's high estrogen levels and a man's lower testosterone levels might lead to a marriage breaking up, sexual incompatibility or inadequacy, a man's testosterone responding by being higher than normal and so on.

How would this affect society?

As I showed earlier if most males took testosterone than many would act like we already know steroid users do. So where we see this change from steroid use affecting some social circles like gym parties, bouncers at nightclubs, professional athletes partying and so on we can extrapolate this into a change in the whole of a society. To continue this thought experiment and assume estrogen would cause similar changes then were might theorise estrogen would change society in the following ways.

1. Females would be more sex obsessed. So there would be more magazines such as Cleo devoted to this, whereas such magazines and Mills and Boon like erotic novels barely existed before The Pill. Women would dress more sexually provocatively. Whereas before a woman might dress up to catch a man because circumstances cause a surge in natural estrogen now the estrogen is always high. So women might dress sexually more often. Since the use of estrogen there was a constant battle from women wanting to wear shorter skirts, lower necklines, small swimsuits, in more and more places. It can also be said this might be a by product of modern society but countries that didn't allow The Pill did not experience this. One only has to look at Muslim countries to see such dress changes have never been pushed for by women. In fact there women are often as keen as men to maintain traditional Islamic costumes. Also in Ireland and Japan the clothing by women remained more modest.

2. Females would be more aggressive sexually. Prearranged marriages were much more common prior to use of estrogen, as there might have been less sexual pressure from the estrogen to select a more attractive partner. So the estrogen may make women more aggressive in selecting their preferred partner rather than accepting the advances of a male. This would also change society radically over time, perhaps to make people more physically attractive if their fathers were selected for this. Also women might be more prone to being raped or a kind of date rape as the estrogen might make them more likely to go ahead rather than refuse sex. So this might lead to an increase in abortions where women took the pill erratically or it failed and they had not more than an artificially induced attraction from estrogen to have sex in the first place. So later a woman would realise they didn't want the baby and hence abortions rise, as well as use of morning after contraceptives.

Also a woman might marry a man for the wrong reasons, where instead of assessing a mate on many traditional factors they might pick someone inappropriate and then wonder later why they picked them. This can lead to divorce. Another result might be women end up in a triangle like relationship where there are two types of men. One is the kind they would historically have married but is less sexually exciting. In fact this might simply be because they have a more normal level of testosterone than the woman has of estrogen. The other type of man is more sexually exciting, either takes steroids or has a naturally higher testosterone level but is otherwise not suitable for marriage. So a woman might end up with the second kind of guy, be an unmarried mother, and over time this could skew the whole genetic distribution of a society.

3. Females would look different. As said earlier the widespread changes in female appearence would affect society. Women might decide they are too attractive for the kind of man they might have traditionally married, and so look for men that are better. These might be men with naturally higher testosterone. So they might end up in relationships where they have multiple sexual partners with such men, who because of high testosterone "aren't the marrying kind".

4. Preferences might change. Women on estrogen might find this gives them new interests and desires. Whereas before women spent less on looking good now often women spend far more on clothes, perfume, cosmetic, plastic surgery, want to see movies designed for their point of view, read romantic novels, and so on. So this can represent a massive change in the wealth of a society whereas before such money might have been spent on marriage, buying a home, etc.

So a woman as a housewife might need estrogen less as they have found a mate, and so a lower estrogen level might cause their bodies to become less attractive. This might be a benefit through natural selection as it makes it less likely she will be targeted by other men.

Can you prove this?

No. This site is merely the outcome of thinking about this since 1993 and presenting some information on the subject. A reader might then think for himself as to whether there is any merit to the idea. Obviously I think there might be or I wouldn't have made this site. At some point hopefully sufficient evidence will exist to prove or disprove this theory. The chance of the this theory being completely correct is low, but I think parts of it are likely to be right. Look for example in the references to see research on this subject

References:

Referenced material is in blue and my comments are in black.


An interesting article on divorce rates in Japan.

"The story becomes even more interesting, however, when you consider what happened to Japanese divorce rates during the 20th Century.  Japan’s rate fell steeply after 1898 and continued falling steadily until the 1960s when it reached a record low level of 0.73 per 1,000—a figure far below those that prevailed in Europe and North America at that time.  It then began rising through the 1960s and 1970s and accelerated upward in the past decade, reaching a level of 2.3 divorces per 1,000 in 2002 (p.145)—roughly on par with the level of divorce in France.  After periods of unusually high divorce before 1900 and unusually low divorce in the first decades after World War II, Japan has finally found itself with a “normal” rate of divorce."

So Japan's divorce rate began to climb around the time estrogen began being used as a contraceptive.


Divorce on Wikipedia

"In the USA, Canada, the United Kingdom, and some other developed Commonwealth countries, this divorce boom developed in the last half of the twentieth century."

This fits in well with the invention of Oral Contraceptives.

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Research by British website http://www.insidedivorce.com which questioned over 2,000 people who are married, divorced, separated or living together found that nearly one in five marriages (19%) – that’s half a million people – are on shaky ground and could be heading for the divorce courts, according to research* by the website. Key findings from the report, which takes an in-depth look at modern love and the social, economic, sexual and psychological ups and downs that make and break Britain’s relationships, include:
  • Sex, infidelity, falling out of love and abuse are the primary reason for divorce in Britain.
  • One in five women cite a serious incident of abuse as the reason for relationship breakdown.
  • One in three men are currently bored with their wife and marriage.
  • The average length of marriage before it hits the rocks is seven years, three months.

Nearly half (44%) of married people surveyed say that their sex lives have decreased while a further one in ten married couples are having no sex at all. These figures are particularly worrying for men, with “lack of sex” being cited as the single biggest factor in relationship breakdown. Tellingly, 36 per cent of men and 44 per cent of women said a partner’s affair was a key problem in their marriage.

27% said that discovering their partner was having an affair was the defining moment that signalled the end of their marriage. In terms of how they discovered their partner’s infidelity: 54% discovered the affair themselves, 20% confessed, and 4% were told by the ‘other woman/man’. 1% simply got a text or letter. 22% said falling out of love was what lead to the breakdown of their relationship, while 15.9% women and 6% of men said a serious incident of abuse is what pushed them over the edge. 40% of women claim physical and mental abuse was a problem during their marriage and 24.5% say that they have encountered drug and alcohol abuse in their relationship before its end."

It's interesting to compare these problems with the effects of estrogen I described. Compare this also with the simple fact that married couples have always had problems but previously didn't divorce at anything like these rates.

The primary reason for divorce and hence likely the primary reason for the increase in divorce relate closely to my suggested effects from estrogen. Estrogen might make people more likely to have an affair because it might make women more promiscuous, causing a husband to have an affair or a wife to. The strain on a marriage from changing sex hormone levels might as described cause people to fall out of love. Another aspect is promiscuity is more common whereas before women were more likely to be virgins when married. So virginity has often been claimed to make a marriage more successful. When people have been promiscuous before marriage, like from the effects of estrogen it might make marriage less likely to succeed later.

Abuse as I described could occur from women being more aggressive, argumentative from the effects of estrogen and also from men seeing a women not settling down with low estrogen levels. So at a subconscious level men might see a wife on estrogen as wanting other men, which causes abuse and breakdown in a marriage.

This can also be from the Estrogen Society, where so many other women appear "on heat" from their artificially high levels of estrogen. So by comparison the single life appears more exciting.

 "Nearly half (44%) of married people surveyed say that their sex lives have decreased while a further one in ten married couples are having no sex at all. These figures are particularly worrying for men, with “lack of sex” being cited as the single biggest factor in relationship breakdown. Tellingly, 36 per cent of men and 44 per cent of women said a partner’s affair was a key problem in their marriage."

Estrogen like testosterone can lead to a kind of resistance and actually make a women less interested in sex than normal. So chronic use of estrogen in contraceptives might lead to this. The simple way to prove or disprove this is to survey which marriages used contraceptives and which did not, and compare the divorce statistics and reasons for divorce for each.


Muslim divorce rates: S'pore tops KL, Jakarta

"DIVORCE rates among Muslims here have risen since the 1970s, to top those of Indonesia and Malaysia where divorce rates have actually fallen since the 1980s.

Last year, there were about nine divorces among every 1,000 married Muslims. This was about three times that for Kuala Lumpur and Klang Valley and about five times that for Jakarta, says Professor Gavin Jones of the Asia Research Institute, who specialises in demography."

This shows divorce rates rising as a country becomes more developed, which should also trend the increase in the use of estrogen as a contraceptive. Of course there are many other factors in divorce and it is by no means clear if estrogen is a factor, but the data is not inconsistent with it.

'Japan, Singapore and Hong Kong, which are highly developed places in Asia, have higher rates of divorce. It's not surprising that Singapore Malays too have a higher rate of divorce than their counterparts in less developed countries.'

The director of PPIS-Jurong family service centre, Mr Mohd Ali Mahmood, agrees.

He said: 'The higher divorce rate among Singapore Malays is likely to be due to the pressures of living in a highly developed country. Couples have a tougher time balancing material pursuits with marriage demands.

'Another could be procedural efficiency - divorce cases here are processed more quickly now.'

 


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Unfortunately this article is no longer online.

Effects on sexuality

The effect of the Pill on a woman’s sexuality are difficult to judge; depending on the individual and the particular formula, the Pill may enhance or disrupt a woman’s (or couple’s) sex life. Neither the woman who uses the Pill nor her partner need take any special action before or during intercourse, which makes birth control "invisible" and sex spontaneous and more natural. When combined with the Pill’s high degree of effectiveness, this may enable the couple, and especially the woman, to relax more easily during sex. Masters and Johnson, among others, reported more than one woman who experienced her first orgasm during intercourse shortly after going on the Pill.

So the Pill can radically affect people's sex life. As the article say more than 80% of US women have taken it, so 80% of women have had their sex lives changed by it.

On the other hand, the Pill’s various side effects may prove disruptive on a physiological or even a psychological level. The hormonal disruption caused by the Pill may result in mood swings, lower libido, excessive or insufficient vaginal lubrication during intercourse, and possibly an injured self-image due to weight gain. Some women who use the Pill despite the teachings of their religious traditions may feel conscious or unconscious guilt; others may not fully trust an "invisible" method of birth control. This wide range of variables makes prediction of the Pill's effect on sexuality difficult, but the fact that the Pill can and does have an impact in this area, for good or for ill, is well-documented.

So mood swings and lower libido combined with 80% of women taking it can point toward divorce reasons mentioned earlier as a lack of sex and abuse.

 

A backlash against oral contraceptives occurred in the early and mid-1970s, when reports and speculations appeared that linked the use of the Pill to breast cancer. Until then, many women in the feminist movement had hailed the Pill as an "equalizer" that had given them the same sexual freedom as men had traditionally enjoyed. This new development, however, caused many of them to denounce oral contraceptives as a male invention designed to facilitate male sexual freedom with women at the cost of health risk to women.[13] At the same time, society was beginning to take note of the impact of the Pill on traditional gender roles. Women now did not have to choose between a relationship and a career; singer Loretta Lynn commented on this in 1975 with a song entitled "The Pill," which told the story of a married woman's use of the drug to liberate herself from her traditional role as wife and mother.

So estrogen became a symbol for a more aggressive, self confident woman but how could so much come from a new form of birth control? Previously birth control was reasonably successful, and now the rhythm method can be as reliable as the Pill. It may also be that estrogen created a group of more aggressive, assertive, independent women and this was seen at the time by the Feminist movement. The song by Loretta Lynn might show how the estrogen not just liberated but altered a woman's traditional role by changing her hormones and destroying a marriage.

Further, married women had control over their family size, even if their belief was that the woman was obligated to submit to her husband's sexual desires -- regardless of her interest -- which had been a prevailing view in many cultures. For women with abusive husbands or women who had had high risk pregnancies, this control was potentially lifesaving; however, it did lead to the conflict of obtaining medication without fully informing the husband.

In time, however, as society adjusted to these new facts, the Pill largely regained its reputation, due to its indisputable effectiveness and convenience. According to some sources, 80 percent of American women use the Pill at some point in their lives,[14]

So if estrogen made women more assertive and aggressive then this might have led to the lower birth rates we see in developed countries, to the point where some populations are actually decreasing.

When a woman becomes pregnant, her hormonal system changes to accommodate the gestation of her child. Her progesterone levels, for instance, can rise to more than twenty times their previous levels. Her estrogen system alters, which alters other brain chemicals, like serotonin and dopamine. Her oxytocin levels change. In total, her hormonal and brain-chemical alterations are responsible for her neurochemical interest in imagining, caring for, protecting, and nurturing her child and her home.

Estrogen alters other brain chemicals like serotonin and dopamine which are implicated in depression, ambition, aggression etc. So altering the amount of estrogen in the body can affect the way a woman thinks, and if 80% of women have estrogen like this then the effects on a society's ideas might be enormous.


Male birth control pill moves closer

THE burden of family planning may be about to shift to men.

A study suggests that sperm levels shoot back to normal around three months after men stop taking experimental hormonal contraceptives, raising the prospect of a male contraceptive implant or patch in the near future.

Christina Wang of the Harbor-UCLA Medical Center in Torrance, California, and her colleagues pooled data from 1549 men in 30 studies whose sperm counts dropped below 3 million sperm per millilitre while taking hormonal contraceptives. The World Health Organization defines 20 million sperm per millilitre as fertile (The Lancet, vol 367, p 1412). Extended periods of treatment were associated with slightly longer recovery time.

Male contraception is most likely to come in the form of a patch, topical gel or injection

When male contraception arrives, it will most likely come in the form of a patch, topical gel or bi-monthly injection, say researchers. Making a male birth control pill remains tricky because orally delivered testosterone can have serious side effects, such as liver damage

As can be seen here, the psychological effects of testosterone on males is not considered.


 
Feminine beauty, the subject of philosophical and artistic musings for millennia, can be predicted by something as basic as hormones – in women, but not men. Researchers at the University of St Andrews in Fife, UK, have found that women’s facial attractiveness is directly related to their oestrogen levels.

So if 80% of women in a society take estrogen then this amounts to an increase in attractiveness of women to men overall, which might strain marriage, etc.

Miriam Law Smith and colleagues photographed 59 women, aged between 18 and 25, every week for six weeks. On each occasion, they provided a urine sample for hormone analysis and gave information on where they were in their menstrual cycle. None of the women wore make-up, nor were they taking the contraceptive pill.

The researchers then selected the photograph of each woman that had been taken at the time of her highest urine-oestrogen level. As expected, this correlated to the point of ovulation in the women’s menstrual cycles. These photographs were rated by 14 men and 15 women, also aged 18 to 25, for attractiveness, health and femininity.

The group also rated two composite face images. One composite was an amalgamation of the 10 women with the lowest peak-oestrogen levels, while the other image was a combination of the 10 women with the highest levels (see image).

Facial formation

“There was a very strong and direct correlation between the level of each woman's oestrogen and how attractive, healthy and feminine they were found to be, showing that fertility is related to attractiveness,” Law Smith told New Scientist. The faces considered most healthy and feminine were also deemed the most attractive.

“It is likely that those women with higher hormone levels also had increased levels of oestrogen during puberty – the time when the hormone has a crucial role in determining facial appearance,” she suggests.

The amount of oestrogen produced by a person’s body during the average seven-year-long puberty is largely determined by heredity. The hormone has lasting effects on bone growth and tissue formation as well as the skin’s appearance, Law Smith explains.

So should 13-year-old girls be given doses of oestrogen in the hope that they will grow into more beautiful women? “Absolutely not,” Law Smith says. “It certainly may make them more attractive, but who knows what other effects the hormone may have?"

One might also ask what the effect of giving estrogen as a contraceptive has.

Of course there may be an easier way - faking it. A further study by Law Smith's group found that when women wore make-up the correlation between perceived attraction and oestrogen levels was completely masked, because make-up improved appearance.

 


The article about the possible long-term effects of the contraceptive pill on women's libido struck a chord with me (28 May, p 17). I didn't take it for very long as its effect on my libido was such that contraception seemed a little irrelevant!

When, many years later, I had my sex hormone levels measured, my testosterone level was very low. I was assured by a consultant gynaecologist that this was extremely unlikely to be related to my lack of sexual desire. Indeed, he said, they saw so many women with testosterone levels well below the "normal" range that they were thinking about redefining the normal limits.

From issue 2504 of New Scientist magazine, 18 June 2005, page 24

So if 80% of women have their libido affected then this correlates with one of the main causes of divorce being lack of sexual desire, perhaps leading to an affair. So there might be a paradoxical effect of estrogen, making women appear more attractive but wanting sex less.


ORAL contraceptives may free a woman to have sex without fear of getting pregnant, but they could also extinguish her desire.

The pill has been associated with many side effects, including blood clots, migraines and weight gain. Perhaps least talked about is its tendency to dull libido by decreasing testosterone levels.

Contraceptive drugs curb the hormone's production in the ovaries and also raise levels of sex hormone binding globulin (SHBG), a substance that takes it out of play. But it is unclear how common problems are in pill users. Until now, any sexual dysfunction, including loss of libido, muted or non-existent orgasms or painful intercourse, was thought to be reversible when women stopped taking the drug.

Irwin Goldstein, Claudia Panzer and their colleagues at Boston University studied 125 young women who attended a sexual dysfunction clinic. Sixty-two of them were taking oral contraceptives, 40 had previously taken them and 23 had never taken them. The team measured levels of SHBG in the women every three months for a year, and found that in pill users they were seven times as high as in women who had never taken them. Levels had declined a bit in women who had stopped taking the pill, but remained three to four times as high as in those who had never taken it, the researchers told a meeting of the American Association of Clinical Endocrinologists in Washington DC last week. "There's the possibility it is imprinting a woman for the rest of her life," says Goldstein.

So just like testosterone in a man estrogen can change a woman permanently.


http://www.hurriedwoman.com/faq.html

Q: Can birth control pills lower my sex drive?

A: They certainly can and do for about 10 to 15 percent of my patients. Most authorities think that birth control pills tend to lower the amount of testosterone in your bloodstream, which can in turn lower libido or sex drive. Pills that have a relatively lower dose of progesterone will be less likely to cause this effect.

So again estrogen in the Pill lowers libido.

Q: My husband says he needs to have sex to feel 'loved', but I don't feel that way at all. How do we handle this?

A: Your mate's primary "love language" is often different from yours and may be difficult for you to "speak" naturally. But, if you don't learn how to express your love in a way that you can each understand, your attempts to communicate love to each other will be much like an American and Chinese businessman attempting to negotiate a contract without an interpreter-utter chaos and frustration.
 

Estrogen makes women receptive to sex, but in order to wish to initiate sexual contact a high level of testosterone is necessary. Estrogen and testosterone tend to oppose each other's effects. Men manufacture more testosterone than they do estrogen, and vice versa, but each gender produces BOTH hormones.

So estrogen can have the effect making women receptive to sex and more attractive but with a lower libido.

Most women's output of testosterone is masked during the greater part of their menstrual cycle by their high estrogen levels, but when their estrogen levels drop, right before they get their periods, the testosterone that they do produce is unopposed and they then become very libidinous, sometimes demanding sexual gratification at the beginning and during their menstrual period. After the period is over, when estrogen levels start to rise again, they are less likely to try to initiate sexual contact, but they may be receptive to it, just the same.

Men and women who understand the fluctuation of hormone levels in women are more inclined to become happily adjusted to each other's libidinal impulses. There may be no perceived need to change any aspect of the female libido (for instance, to try to make its fluctuations conform to male standards of uniformity of level), but rather a celebration of its ups and downs.

One might not however be able to adjust to each other's hormone levels if the Pill is affecting the woman's level of estrogen. So perhaps over long enough this causes enough disruption in a marriage to make people fall out of love.


http://www.zmag.org/zmag/articles/sargentapril2000.htm

Fisher says that in the 1960s 65 percent of 503 American college men would not marry a woman they did not love. Well, that’s impressive. That means that 35 out of every 100 men would. As for college women, 24 percent of 576 said they would refuse to wed a man they didn’t love—72 percent were undecided. Good grief.

In 1991, according to Fisher’s statistics, 86 percent of men and 91 percent of women said they would not wed someone they were not in love with and 50 percent of men and women believe that if romantic passion fades that is sufficient reason for divorce.

Another example of radical changes in attitudes since estrogen in the Pill was available.


Reclaiming Desire

Anyone who has stood in a supermarket checkout line has seen all the sexy headlines on women's magazines, touting exciting new ways for readers to drive their men wild in bed or to heighten their own sexual pleasure. These are tantalizing promises, to be sure. But they sorely miss the mark.

 

The fact is, many women aren't interested in more sex or better sex. They aren't interested in sex at all. They used to be, of course. Over months or even years, their sexual desire all but disappeared. And they can't understand why.

 

Through years of clinical practice, Andrew Goldstein, M.D., and Marianne Brandon, Ph.D., have worked with scores of clients who aren't satisfied with their sex drives. They've seen how women struggle to open up about this very personal and painful problem. And they've seen how it can erode women's self-esteem and strain intimate relationships.

 

In Reclaiming Desire, Dr. Goldstein and Dr. Brandon present a self-care version of their highly effective holistic approach to treating low libido.

Review:

"Low libido is the most common sexual disorder in American women, affecting an estimated 22 to 43 percent of the female population. And, according to authors Goldstein (a gynecologist) and Brandon (a clinical psychologist), the problem is more complex than most therapists realize. 'A decline in sexual desire seldom has a single cause,' they argue. 'The collection of factors that influences a woman's sex drive is as unique as the woman herself.' Drawing upon their experience at the Sexual Wellness Center in Annapolis, Maryland, an institution that they founded, the authors advocate a holistic treatment that addresses four spheres of a woman's life: physical health, emotional resilience, intellectual fulfillment and spiritual contentment. Their book covers all the possible factors: weight, diet, exercise, medical conditions, sleep patterns, testosterone, estrogen, dopamine, emotional arousal, stress, sexual trauma and life passages such as motherhood, menopause and divorce. Understanding the mind-body connection can increase sexual pleasure, they emphasize, and the acceptance of some basics-sexual pleasure fluctuates throughout life; a woman's experience often doesn't match society's 'ideal'-can smooth the road to change. Personal stories from the authors' patients demonstrate the problem's complexity and help make the book more a practical, open-ended discussion about women's sexual desire than a definitive medical manual." Publishers Weekly (Copyright Reed Business Information, Inc.)

Interestingly this shows that perhaps 30% at least of women who have taken the Pill have this problem. It should be possible to determine whether many women have these problems and have never taken Estrogen.


What's Really Behind the Plunge in Teen Pregnancy?

The great sperm-count debate began in 1992, when a group of Danish scientist published a study suggesting that sperm counts declined globally by about 1 percent a year between 1938 and 1990. This study postulated that "environmental influences," particularly widely used chemical compounds with an impact like that of the female hormone estrogen, might be contributing to a drop in fertility among males. If true, this was obviously an alarming development, particularly given that human sperm counts are already strikingly low compared to almost any other species. "Humans have the worst sperm except for gorillas and ganders of any animal on the planet," points out Sherman Silber, a high-profile urologist who attributes this in part to short-term female monogamy. Since one man's sperm rarely has to race that of another man to the finish, things like speed and volume are less important in human sperm than in other animals, permitting a certain amount of atrophy among humans.

The Danish study set an argument in motion. Other studies were published showing that sperm counts were staying the same; still others showed them going up. In the late 1990s, however, an American reproductive epidemiologist named Shanna Swan published work confirming the Danish findings. In a well-respected study published in Environmental Health Perspectives, Swan, now at the University of Rochester Medical Center, found that sperm counts are dropping by about 1.5 percent a year in the United States and 3 percent in Europe and Australia, though they do not appear to be falling in the less-developed world. This may not sound like a lot, but cumulatively—like compound interest—a drop of 1 percent has a big effect. Swan showed, further, that in the United States there appears to be a regional variation in sperm counts: They tend to be lower in rural sectors and higher in cities, suggesting the possible impact of chemicals (such as pesticides) particular to one locality.

Swan is part of a group of scientists whose work suggests that environmental changes are indeed having a reproductive impact. Under the auspices of a women's health group at Stanford University and an alliance called the Collaborative on Health and the Environment, some of these scientists met in February 2005 at a retreat in Menlo Park, Calif., to discuss their findings. Among the evidence presented are several trends that seem to point to a subtle feminization of male babies: a worldwide rise in hypospadias, a birth defect in which the urethral opening is located on the shaft of the penis rather than at the tip; a rise in cryptorchidism, or undescended testicles; and experiments Swan has done showing that in male babies with high exposure to compounds called phthalates, something called the anogenital distance is decreasing. If you measure the distance from a baby's anus to the genitals, the distance in these males is shorter, more like that of … girls.

Wildlife biologists also talked about the fact that alligators living in one contaminated Florida lake were found to have small phalli and low testosterone levels, while females in the same lake had problems associated with abnormally high levels of estrogen. In 1980 the alligators' mothers had been exposed to a major pesticide dump, which, some believe, was working like an estrogen on their young, disrupting their natural hormones. A report later published by this group pointed out that similar disruptions have been found in a "wide range of species from seagulls to polar bears, seals to salmon, mollusks to frogs." As evidence that a parent's exposure to toxicants can powerfully affect the development of offspring, the example of DES, or diethylstilbestrol, was also, of course, offered. Widely given to pregnant women beginning in the late 1930s under the mistaken assumption that it would prevent miscarriage, DES left the women unaffected but profoundly affected their female fetuses, some of whom would die of cancer, others of whom would find their reproductive capacity compromised. The consensus was that the so-called chemical revolution may well be disrupting the development of reproductive organs in young males, among others. This research is controversial, certainly, but accepted enough, as a hypothesis, that it appears in developmental-biology textbooks.

The environmental effects of estrogen like compounds may also be contributing to this problem.


http://www.health-science.com/estrogen.html

Estrogen Dominance


Natural progesterone is produced by the corpus luteum after ovulation and balances the side effects of otherwise unopposed estrogen.

Under influences of anovulatory cycles,
menopause, stress and dietary antagonists, progesterone production ceases or is suppressed and the effects of Estrogen Dominance, can be observed. Many women experience otherwise unexplained weight gain from the lack of progesterone that is required for proper thyroid function.*

It is also important that we distinguish
Natural Progesterone from Yam extract and from its counterparts in the drug industry - PROGESTINS. Although these drugs are commonly referred to as progesterone, this is a misnomer. In some ways they mimic the effects of progesterone in the body, but in other important ways they gravely interfere with natural progesterone and can create and exacerbate hormone related health problems, and be a primary contributor to the condition referred to as Estrogen Dominance:

 

  • Anger

     

  • Headaches

     

  • Irritability

     

  • Increased Body Fat

     

  • Interference with Thyroid Hormone Activity (hypo-thyroid)

     

  • Depression

     

  • Salt and Water Retention

     

  • Blood Sugar Irregularities (Food Cravings)

     

  • Reduced Oxygen in All Cells

     

  • Decreased Libido (Sex Drive)

     

  • Loss of Zinc and Retention of Copper

     

  • Excessive Blood Clotting

     

  • Irregular Cycles

     

  • Increased Risk of Breast Cancer

     

  • Reduced Vascular Tone

     

  • Increased Risk of Endometrial Cancer

     

  • Increased Risk of Ovarian Cancer

     

  • Endometriosis

     

  • Uterine Cramping

     

  • Infertility

     

  • Increased Risk of Uterine Cancer


     

When the above list of ill-effects is compared to the benefits of Natural Progesterone, we see a nearly one-to-one correlation.
 

So progesterone in the Pill might also be interfering with estrogen levels in women, causing anger, irritability and depression.


Various studies have claimed that people who have been in divorced families:

  • have higher rates of alcoholism and other substance abuse compared to those who have never been divorced. Robert H. Coombs, Professor of Behavioral Sciences at UCLA, reviewed over 130 studies measuring how marital status affects personal well-being. They "attest that married people live longer and generally are more emotionally and physically healthy than the unmarried." Also, "studies consistently found more alcoholism and problem drinking among the unmarried than the married." The separated and divorced account for 70% of all chronic problem drinkers, and marrieds 15% [Coombs 1991].
  • have higher rates of clinical depression. "Family disruption and low socioeconomic status in early childhood increase the long-term risk for major depression" [Gilman 2003].
  • seek formal psychiatric care at higher rates. Studies vary, suggesting from 5 to 21 times the risk, and vary over whether men or women are more seriously affected [Marks 1998] and [Bloom 1979].
  • in the case of men, are more likely to commit suicide at some point in their lives, according to a study by Augustine Kposowa, a University of California at Riverside sociologist [Kposowa 2003]. This study quantified earlier work [Kposowa 2000] that estimated an increased risk of 2.7 times for men.
  • have lower life expectancies overall [see [Smock 1993], [US Bureau of the Census 1991], [Dickson 1993], [Arendell 1995], [Amato 1991], and [Joung 1994].
  • are more likely to live in poverty [McLanahan 1994].

This indicates that most divorces occur for an unnatural reason, and so the children and men are badly affected by the experience. Also 2/3 or more divorces are initiated by the wife.


http://bne.stanford.edu/documents/JAGS2002.pdf

This study confirms and extends previous work on the possible influence of estrogen on mood and cognition. Our results indicate that women using ERT have less-severe symptoms of depression and anger and better verbal fluency and working memory than non-ERT users. Men also have lower levels of anger and better working memory than women who do not use ERT. The findings that female ERT users reported less-severe depressive symptoms than men or nonusers are consistent with previous reports demonstrating relationships between estrogen use and fewer depressive symptoms.2–7 Unlike most

other studies, other aspects of mood were examined and found that ERT users and men were less angry than female nonusers. These results are actually contrary to those of Carlson et al., who found that ERT users were less elated, Understanding of how estrogen influences the brain and, in turn, mood and cognition, is derived from several sources, including basic laboratory studies (inferences from comparisons of sex differences, observational epidemiological

studies, and clinical trials).35 Mood effects could result from estrogen’s modulation of serotonergic, -adrenergic, and noradrenergic neurotransmitters.36–38 In addition, estrogen may modulate mood through monoamine oxidase inhibition at high levels, tryptophan displacement from plasma albumin binding sites, and effects on 5-hydroxytryptamine receptor binding and downregulation. Other brain effects of estrogen could influence cognitive performance, including its cholinergic neuroprotective and neurotrophic effects and its ability to foster dendritic growth.36–39 In this study, it is interesting to note that ERT was associated with several variables that are modulated by the orbitofrontal areas, namely mood, verbal fluency, and working memory. This is certainly consistent with the fact that estrogen receptors are found in higher concentrations intraneuronally in the basal forebrain (origin of cholinergic pathways), frontal lobe (modulates the verbal encoding and retrieval system), and locus ceruleus (site of norepinephrine production) in addition to the hippocampus

(modulates learning and semantic memory).34 Studies of regional cerebral glucose metabolism using positron emission tomography (PET) have found higher

glucose metabolic rates in the CA-1 hippocampal region and the prefrontal cortex in premenopausal women than in age-matched men; moreover, postmenopausal non-ERT users show lower metabolic activity than age-matched men.19,37,38,40–42 Other PET studies support the observation that ERT use is associated with increased brain activity in temporal regions, areas known to be involved in cognitive function.15,43

This shows how estrogen affects brain function.


http://web.missouri.edu/~news/releases/decjan03/gearystudy.html

The disorder, characterized by a pattern of instability in relationships and self-image, includes symptoms such as impulsivity, suicidal behavior, and difficulty controlling anger. David Geary, professor of psychology at MU, and Catherine DeSoto, assistant professor of psychology at UNI, found that fluctuations in estrogen levels during the menstrual cycle may significantly worsen symptoms for women who are at risk for developing the disorder. It is the first study to link estrogen levels and BPD.

 "The critical thing to understand is that it is not how much estrogen you have in the body, but the level at which it fluctuates that is related to BPD,” Geary said. “The combination of being prone to the disorder and fluctuating estrogen levels is what produces the symptoms.”

So fluctuating estrogen levels with contraceptives is similar to this.


http://www.wellnesswithin.com/articles/estrogen%20dominance.pdf

COMMON CAUSES

• Stress (excess cortisol displaces progesterone)

• Xenohormone exposure

• Use of oral or injected contraceptives

• Conventional HRT

• Adrenal Fatigue

• Poor diet (usually high in carb, low fat)

• Consumption of trans-fats

• Nutritional deficiencies (especially magnesium, zinc, copper and B complex vitamins)

• Luteal Insufficiency (insufficient ovarian progesterone production)

Anovulatory cycles (cycle where menstruation occurs, but no ovulation, and therefore no

ovarian progesterone is produced)

Obesity (in postmenopausal women, estrogen is made in the fat cells; excess fat cells

make excess estrogen.)

COMMON SYMPTOMS

1. Anxiety, irritability, anger, agitation

2. Cramps, heavy bleeding, prolonged bleeding, clots

3. Water retention/weight gain, bloating

4. Breast tenderness, lumpiness, enlargement, fibrocystic breasts

5. Mood swings, depression

6. Headaches/migraines

7. Food cravings, sweet cravings, chocolate cravings

8. Muscle pains, joint pains, back pain

9. Acne

10. Foggy thinking, memory difficulties

11. Fat gain, especially in abdomen, hips and thighs

12. Cold hands and feet (hypothyroid because estrogen blocks thyroid hormones)

13. Blood sugar instability, Insulin Resistance

14. Irregular periods

15. Decreased sex drive

16. Gall bladder problems

17. Infertility

As can be seen, oral contraceptives are known to be a cause of this. Many of these symptoms in a country with 80% of women taking the Pill at some point can change a society.


http://www.medicinenet.com/script/main/art.asp?articlekey=53725

Irritable Male Syndrome

WebMD Live Events Transcript

Stressed out? Grumpy? Moody? If you're a guy and these words describe your mental state, you may be suffering from what psychotherapist Jed Diamond calls "irritable male syndrome" in his book of the same name. Yes, ladies, even men can fall victim to hormone fluctuations. We discussed IMS and its effects on men when Diamond joined us on Nov. 10, 2004.

The opinions expressed herein are the guests' alone and have not been reviewed by a WebMD physician. If you have questions about your health, you should consult your personal physician. This event is meant for informational purposes only.

MODERATOR:
Welcome to WebMD Live, Jed. Thank you for joining us today. What is irritable male syndrome? Is this a new problem or a newly recognized problem?

DIAMOND:
This is really based on 40 years of my own clinical research as well as responses from 10,000 men. We've discovered why millions of men are becoming angry and depressed, and why they so often vent their frustration on the women they love the most.

Irritable male syndrome (IMS) can be defined as a state of hypersensitivity, frustration,
anxiety, and anger that occurs in males and is associated with biochemical changes, hormonal fluctuations, stress, and loss of male identity.

MODERATOR:
How are
depression and aggression linked in men?

DIAMOND:
What we've found was that most of the professional research and, in some ways, common experience have assumed women suffered from depression at twice the rate as males. We've found in our research that men often experience depression in different ways than women. And often, irritability and anger and hypersensitivity are male aspects of depression that often go unrecognized.

MODERATOR:
What is the role of stress in IMS?

DIAMOND:
What we found is that stress is destroying marriages and destroying relationships. There are a number of reasons for this. There are more new and more deadly stresses that we face today than ever before. In the past, stress came from physical sources. A wild animal would run into the camp or there would be physical danger. And men knew how to respond to that, the fight or flight response.

But now, stress comes from many other sources. From too much traffic, stress from where our country is going, and the direction we're going, fears about unknown attacks from outside or stresses from inside our country. The traditional male responses don't work. We can't fight it if we don't know what it is. As a result, male stress tends to be taken out on the partners that we are in relationship with.

MODERATOR:
Some men turn inward and harm themselves; others become aggressive. What determines which way a man will go?

DIAMOND:
As I described IMS as having two types or directions, we can say it's either acted in -- reflecting in depression, and if not treated even
suicide. Or it's acted out in terms of anger, aggression and violence. What determines which one has to do with often our upbringing, in some cases our genetic heritage and biochemistry. But quite often, we see men going from one extreme to the other. These are the men that seem to hold it inside and then, out of the blue, tend to explode.

MODERATOR:
Are there hormonal factors in IMS? We so easily throw around the idea that hormones affect women's moods, but for men it never seems to come up.

DIAMOND:
Again, there is the assumption that women are hormonal but men are moved more by logic. But the truth is men are as hormonally driven as women. In fact, men have a number of hormonal cycles:

1) Men's testosterone, for instance, varies and goes up and down four or five times an hour.
2) There are daily cycles with testosterone being higher in the morning and lower at night.
3) Men have a monthly hormonal cycle that is unique to each man, but men can actually track their moods and recognize they are related to hormonal changes through the month.
4) We know that there are seasonal cycles with testosterone higher in November and lower in April.
5) We know about hormonal cycles with males during adolescence, but also the years between 40 and 55 have what we call
male menopause or andropause.
6) Finally, we know there are hormonal changes in men going through IMS, related to stress in a man's life.

 
"What we've found is that one of the primary symptoms is denial. That is, men think the problem is anywhere other than in themselves."
 

MEMBER QUESTION:
What causes hormones to go out of whack in a man?

DIAMOND:
There are a lot of things that can make hormones go out of whack. Let's start with something we all do, and that is eating food. If we gain weight, we run the potential of increasing IMS.

Here is how it works: In the body, a certain amount of testosterone gets converted to estrogen. Males and females have estrogen and testosterone in our bodies. When we put on weight, our fat cells are more active in converting testosterone into estrogen. The more estrogen we have and the less testosterone we have, the more irritable we become and the less sense of our own manly strength that we have. That's one way they get out of whack.

A second way is that we know when we are under a great deal of stress our testosterone levels drop. The third way they get out of whack is when we use various medications that can have in impact on hormonal levels. Many people are using multiple medications, not always with the knowledge of their doctors. And when I say medication, I include herbal remedies that many people think that because they're natural, they're safe, or that they're not real medications.

 

 


Does Testosterone Equal Aggression? Maybe Not

Dr. Wang's work is in keeping with similar findings from other laboratories that question how relevant testosterone is to human aggression. Some studies even indicate another, improbable source of aggression: estrogen. Yes, the gal hormone. Other work presented at the meeting showed that when male mice were genetically deprived of their ability to respond to estrogen, they lost a lot of their natural aggressiveness, becoming much less likely to fight with other males or to display the general paranoia exhibited by ordinary male rodents.

Considered together, the new work underscores how primitive is scientists' understanding of the effects of hormones on human and even animal behavior. Testosterone was first isolated nearly half a century ago, yet its influence on the brain and behavior remains largely a matter of creative speculation. "It's more an art form than a science form," particularly when it comes to human research, said Dr. William J. Bremner, an endocrinologist at the Seattle Veterans Affairs Medical Center and the University of Washington.

What is not open to debate is that to call testosterone or any of the related androgens "male" hormones, or to call estrogens "female" hormones is a misnomer: both sexes possess some amounts of each other's hormones. But they differ considerably in the relative amount circulating through the blood.

In the case of testosterone, women on average have about 40 nanograms of the hormone per deciliter of blood, and a score of 120 would rank as extremely high (and very likely result in hirsutism, acne and other problems of excess androgens). Men, by contrast, normally have 300 to 1,000 nanograms of testosterone per deciliter, or 10 times a woman's concentration.

This discrepancy explains in part why testosterone has been tagged as the hormone of aggression. Men have so much more of it than women -- more of it than women have of estrogen relative to males. Men also commit the vast majority of violent crimes and get into many more accidents than do women. There has been other evidence implicating testosterone as the bearer of brutality. When scientists inject laboratory animals with testosterone, male and female animals alike respond with more aggressive behavior, becoming more likely to attack intruders or to begin mounting anything that moves.

Moreover, some studies of prison populations, wife beaters or other groups considered hostile and foul-tempered, suggest that aggressive men have comparatively high testosterone levels. And then there are those football players or weight-lifters who take super-high doses of anabolic steroids -- synthetic androgens -- in an attempt to build strength and muscle mass. Often, such men report feeling prepared to go out and puree their opponents.

But scientists are beginning to question the relevance of animal behavioral studies to human emotions, and even to wonder what subsidiary effects the testosterone injections could be having on laboratory animals to explain their increased aggression. As for the human studies, they are contradictory and open to various interpretations. For example, stress can affect hormone levels in ways that are only now being mapped out, and prisoners are likely to be under extremes of stress.

Dr. Wang notes that while competitive athletes may report feeling pugilistic on anabolic steroids, "this is a highly select group of subjects with a particular psychological makeup." And the drugs they take are not native testosterone, but usually a synthesized mix of androgens, with who knows what effect coming from each.

So far, there have been no good, controlled studies seeking to evaluate the effect of giving excess testosterone to androgenically normal men. In lieu of such studies are recent experiments comparing the mood states of hypogonadal men before and after treatment, like Dr. Wang's work.

One missing element of this report, however, is a conventional control group -- seeing what happens to men with low testosterone if they are given a dummy medication rather than real testosterone. Do they, too, feel happier and friendlier? Such an experiment would be unethical, said Dr. Wang, because hypogonadal men who visit the clinic are ill and need treatment to restore muscle and bone mass and healthy cholesterol levels. Denying them testosterone would be like denying a diabetic insulin.

Offering a partial explanation, Dr. Bremner and his colleagues reported in the June 1994 issue of The Journal of Clinical and Endocrinological Metabolism their results of seeing what happens to healthy men when they are artificially and temporarily brought to a state of low testosterone. Some of the subjects were immediately given testosterone replacement, while others received dummy medication.

The study was mainly intended to look at the effects of testosterone on libido, but the researchers noted that the men with a drug-induced state of hypogonadism reported increased levels of aggression. "Perhaps it made them uncomfortable or unhappy in a variety of ways, and that unhappiness registered itself as a high score on the aggression scale," Dr. Bremner said.

What Dr. Bremner's study and other reports found that does conform to stereotypical notions of the male hormone is that testosterone is profoundly important to a man's sex drive, though not to his mechanical abilities in bed. Hypogonadal men report a sharp drop in sexual interest, which testosterone replacement quickly restores. The androgen may also play a role in female sexuality, and a growing number of menopausal women are asking that testosterone be added to their hormone replacement regimen to restore a lackluster libido. But the data linking sex drive and testosterone in women are fiercely debated.

Testosterone therapy also appears to give men and women more energy, vim, the desire to leap out of bed in the morning and embrace the demands of the day with can-do concentration. That zestiness is not the same as aggression, which if anything is often accompanied by poor concentration and underlying malaise, researchers said.

If testosterone qua testosterone is not the demonic potion of legend, its yangian counterpart, estrogen, may not be so innocent. Reporting last month at the annual meeting of the American Pediatric Society, Dr. Jordan W. Finkelstein, Dr. Howard Kulin and their colleagues at Pennsylvania State University said that they compared the effects of giving estrogen therapy to girls who suffered from delayed onset of puberty with that of giving testosterone to boys who likewise were late in sexually maturing. The girls showed earlier and larger increases in aggression than did the boys, until the boys received the last and highest dose of testosterone.

The researchers propose that for both sexes, the cause of the teen-age spike in aggressive and very likely insolent behavior is estrogen. As scientists only lately are beginning to appreciate, most of the effect of testosterone on the brain is paradoxically estrogenic in nature. That is because the brain is rich in the enzyme aromatase, which converts testosterone into estrogen. The newly transformed hormone then acts on the nerve cells of the brain through estrogen receptors, proteins designed specifically to link up with it.

A male's brain also has some receptors for testosterone, but they are far fewer in number or distribution, and the converting enzyme aromatase does not leave much testosterone around to hook up with these androgen receptors anyway.

Thus, in both boys and girls, as they reach adolescence and their respective sex hormones surge, the influence of either hormone on the brain and behavior probably works its dark art as estrogen. In the Pennsylvania study, the girls may have had a jump on aggressive behavior over the boys because they were given direct injections of estrogen and therefore their brains did not need to go through the work of converting testosterone to estrogen.

The centrality of the brain's estrogen receptors to aggressive behavior was highlighted by a new study of receptor-deficient mice, presented at the endocrine meeting. Dr. Donald W. Pfaff of Rockefeller University in New York, his student, Sonoko Ogawa, and Dr. Kenneth S. Korach of the National Institutes of Health, have analyzed male mice genetically altered so that they lack nearly all estrogen receptors.

Testing the male mice in a variety of circumstances, the researchers determined that they were unusual in many ways. Normal male mice do not tend to wander across open fields as females do, but prefer to skulk along borders; males without estrogen receptors generally took the female attitude, and freely walked where they pleased. Ordinary males respond to intruders in their territory with violent attacks, chasing, biting and generally seeking to harm the interloper. These males react to newcomers tepidly if at all, perhaps nipping if the animal comes too close, but never attacking the stranger outright.

Significantly, the altered males still have all their androgen receptors intact. It is only the ability of their brain to respond to estrogen that is defective.

The researchers have yet to report on the behavior of female mice lacking estrogen receptors. Those results will probably break a few paradigms of their own.

Until then, perhaps it is time for a new hormonal cliche to explain aggression. How about this: The estrogen was so thick you couldn't beat it down with a rolling pin.


Estrogen could be key PMS factor

http://www.thelantern.com/media/storage/paper333/news/1998/01/30/Campus/Estrogen.Could.Be.Key.Pms.Factor-43713.shtml?norewrite200605070502&sourcedomain=www.thelantern.com

Angela Chundrlek

Issue date: 1/30/98 Section: Campus
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Women who experience anger, depression and anxiety may have something to blame for their discomfort.
A recent study in the New England Journal of Medicine suggests the hormone estrogen may be a key factor for those suffering from premenstrual syndrome.
A research team from the National Institute of Mental Health used Leuprolide, a drug that prohibits both ovulation and menstruation, to stop PMS symptoms in 10 women. The symptoms were then reproduced by Estradiol, a form of the hormones estrogen and progesterone, which affect PMS symptoms.

In an editorial for the study, Dr. Joseph Mortola of Chicago's Cook County Hospital wrote, "There is now sufficient evidence to suggest that estrogen, never before seriously considered as a hormone with negative mood effects, may indeed play a part in the symptoms of premenstrual syndrome."
But Leuprolide is not for everyone, said Susan Bluestone, a nurse practitioner at Planned Parenthood. She said the drug is not appropriate for a woman's general lifestyle, and it usually takes from nine to 12 months to be effective.
Eric Broker, a registered pharmacist at CVS pharmacy, said Leuprolide has a lot of side effects, such as high blood pressure, heart murmur, depression, insomnia, headaches, and dizziness. It is most commonly used as an alternative to estrogen, and to induce puberty for children that do not mature properly.
Leuprolide is also commonly used on women suffering from endometriosis to stimulate artificial menopause, Bluestone said.
Endometriosis is a condition that causes endometrial tissue, which is usually present in the uterus and shed during the menstrual cycle, to form outside the uterus.
Bluestone said general precautions such as decreasing caffeine and salt intake can lower PMS symptoms. Exercise, getting plenty of sleep, and eating a healthy diet also play an important role, she said.
As a college student, Bluestone said, women must really look at their lifestyle. Factors such as midterms and papers play a big role in stress, she said.

http://www.religioustolerance.org/chr_dira.htm

Variation in divorce rates among Christian faith groups:

Denomination (in order of decreasing divorce rate) % who have been divorced
Non-denominational (small conservative groups; independents) 34%
Baptists 29%
Mainline Protestants 25%
Mormons 24%
Catholics 21%
Lutherans 21%

Barna's results verified findings of earlier polls: that conservative Protestant Christians, on average, have the highest divorce rate, while mainline Christians have a much lower rate. They found some new information as well: that atheists and agnostics have the lowest divorce rate of all.  George Barna commented that the results raise "questions regarding the effectiveness of how churches minister to families." The data challenge "the idea that churches provide truly practical and life-changing support for marriage.

Donald Hughes, author of The Divorce Reality, said: "In the churches, people have a superstitious view that Christianity will keep them from divorce, but they are subject to the same problems as everyone else, and they include a lack of relationship skills. ...Just being born again is not a rabbit's foot." Hughes claim that 90% of divorces among born-again couples occur after they have been "saved."

Variation in divorce rates by age:

Age group % have been divorced
Baby boomers (33 to 52 years of age) 34%
Builders (53 to 72 years of age) 37%
Seniors (above 72 years of age) 18%

Many seniors were married in the late 40's or early 50's at a time when divorce rates were much lower than they are today.

Interestingly seniors would have married before the Pill was available. It would be interesting to see if there were variations in use of the Pill because of religious teachings.


http://www.speroforum.com/site/article.asp?idCategory=34&idsub=127&id=1449

We all are aware of the pain and consequences of divorce. I submit there is an often overlooked factor in many broken marriages today: the use of contraception.

In a popular and published lecture titled 'Contraception: Why Not?,' Dr. Janet Smith, chair of Life Issues at Sacred Heart Major Seminary in Detroit, discusses why the divorce rate doubled between 1965, when 25 percent of marriages ended in divorce, and 1975, when 50 percent of marriages ended in divorce – arguably the same as today.

Smith cites the research of social scientist Robert Michael, who concluded "that as the contraceptive pill became more and more available, divorce became more and more popular." In fact, Michael attributed "45 percent of this increase [in divorce] to increased use of contraceptives." Why so?

There are three reasons, according to Michael. First, his statistical data showed "that those who use contraceptives have fewer children and have them later in marriage…those who have the first baby in the first two years of marriage and another baby in the next couple years of marriage, have a much
longer lasting marriage than those who don't."

Secondly, Michael found that "since contraceptives have arrived on the scene, there is much more adultery than there was before." Observes Smith: "People have been tempted, for the history of mankind. It's easy enough to think about wanting to have an affair, but wanting a child out of wedlock is another story. But if most every woman is contracepting, then most every woman is available in a certain sense and there is no real reason to say no. Adultery is absolutely devastating to marriages."

The third explanation, says Dr. Smith, is "that women are financially more independent. They do have fewer children. They do go into the work place. And, again, when they have difficulties in the marriage, it's much [easier] to say, ‘Take a walk,’ than it is to work it out because they need their
husband for one fewer reason than they did before."


Smith also says that widespread pre-marital sex and cohabitation have contributed to the increase in divorce. Obviously, those who fornicate often use some type of contraception, and, if that fails, they can always have the unborn child killed through abortion.

"So contraception hasn't made for better marriages," concludes Smith.

Indeed. Now consider that the divorce/separation rate for married couples who use natural family planning - that is, periodic abstinence from sexual intercourse – is less than one in eight, according to Dr. Brian Clowes of Human Life International. (It should be noted that some faithful Catholics


http://www.catholiceducation.org/articles/sexuality/se0002.html

Most people don't know that every Christian church up until 1930 taught that contraception was wrong. There was a universal teaching against contraception within Christian churches. It was only in 1930 that the Anglican church first broke with that unbroken tradition and approved contraception within marriage for serious reasons. In 1931, Pope Pius XI wrote the Encyclical, Casti Connubii, which is usually translated On Christian Marriage, and there he reiterated what had been the constant teaching of the Church. Within the Catholic Church there was virtually no debate on the issue until the mid-1960's. The debate starts about 1963. There was really a great acceptance of the Church, of those in the Church, of the teaching of the church. In 1960, some 66% of Catholics were living by the Church's teaching. Sixty-six percent. Now they say some 80% of Catholics are contracepting. Thirty percent of Catholics are sterilized, which is the same rate as the rest of the population. Only 4% of Catholics are using Natural Family Planning. I personally think that might be a high estimate.

So, how have we in the last 30 years gone from 66% compliance to at best 4% of compliance? One reason was that there really weren't very good contraceptives in the early sixties. The pill was not yet really on the market. It had just begun to be developed. Most contraceptives were illegal in most states — at least for interstate purchase. The laws that made contraceptives illegal were put on the books by Protestant legislators. Contraception was always seen to be the source of great sexual license in society and considered to be something that a morally upright society would ban. But as you all know, because of the doctrine of the “right to privacy” found in the “penumbra” of the Constitution, those laws were thrown out in the early 1960's. The Supreme Court decision that threw out laws against interstate sale of contraceptives really was the precursor to Roe v. Wade. The right to privacy is found in Griswold v. State of Connecticut and then is reiterated in Roe v. Wade which legalized abortion. It was also at that time, for Catholics at least, that obedience was considered to be a virtue. It was not yet seen to be a pathological condition. So, Catholics were prepared to accept what their Church taught simply because it taught it, whether or not they understood it.

In the 1960's, the pill became available and that's really when the revolution in contraceptives began. The pill was considered to be a great salvation of mankind for several reasons. It was at that time that people began to think we were headed for disaster as far as population was concerned. In fact, when I was in high school, we had posters of globes with human beings falling off the globe, it was projected to be so crowded. But there actually have been no two people who have been more wrong than Malthus and Paul Ehrlich, who both predicted huge famines and wars because of population.

Well, who was right? The secular world or Pope Paul VI? What about the predictions of the secular world who thought contraception would be so great? What about the prediction that marriages would be better? I think, in some respects, marriages are better, but the divorce rate shows us that there are a lot of very bad marriages, or at least marriages that end because people think they are very bad. In fact, the divorce rate doubled between 1965 and 1975. The divorce rate had been sort-of sneaking up all century long until in the mid 1960's it was at 25%, and then in 1975 it had got up to 50%. In a short ten year period, the divorce rate doubled. There's a social scientist at the University of Stanford named Robert Michael who was intrigued by this and he wondered why it was that the divorce rate doubled in a ten year period. He actually discovered that as the contraceptive pill became more and more available, divorce became more and more popular. In about 1975-1976 when about every woman who wanted access to the pill had it, that's when the divorce rate leveled off.

In this statistical scientific investigation, he's discovered three reasons why he thinks the use of contraceptives have contributed to this massive increase of the divorce rate. He says he can attribute 45% of this increase to increased use of contraceptives. These are his reasons. There are three. I think there are others, as well.

Now, I think there are several other reasons why contraceptives are damaging to marriage. It's hard to get really clear statistics on this but just recently in USA Today, I read that one poll shows that 37% of high school students are sexually active. Another said 57%. I saw another that said that 87% of college students have been sexually active. I think that most of you know that there are very few people going into marriage as virgins anymore. They're harder to find. And I think all this sexual activity before marriage is not good for marriage. Most people have been lied to at some point. Most people have made promises and broken those promises and had promises made to them and those promises have been broken. And they're marrying someone who has lied and made promises and had promises broken and they don't trust each other quite as much. They don't even trust themselves quite as much. “I've said these things before, I've made these commitments before — can I keep them? He's said these things before, he's made these commitments before — can he keep them?”
Has it made for fewer unwanted pregnancies? The statistics on this are wild. In 1960, some 6% of white babies were born out of wedlock. Six percent. In 1992, 22% of white babies were born out of wedlock. Almost a four-fold increase, and it's rapidly rising. Rapidly rising. In 1960, some 22%, same figure, 22% of black babies were born out of wedlock. Anybody know the percentage now? Sixty-eight percent. Sixty-eight percent of black babies are born out of wedlock. That took thirty years. I don't think it will take thirty years for the 22% of whites to go up to 68 if we follow down the same path we are currently following. Now, here's my connection: First of all, the world tells us that if we have more and better contraceptives we can solve these problems. There will be fewer unwanted pregnancies. But the point was, in 1960, there were almost no contraceptives available, especially to teenagers. You had to know some tacky gas station somewhere and have a few quarters and that's about the best you could do. But any teenager now can get contraceptives from the guidance counselor, in fact, from some welcome-to-school kits in some schools. We live in a culture in which condoms can be handed out in schools and Bibles can't. And I think that tells you everything you need to know about our society. So, it seems to me that clearly, more and better contraceptives aren't going to help. Teenagers have incredible access to them. But teenagers are just as good at using contraceptives as they are at making their beds and doing their homework and doing their chores, at about the same degree of reliability.
Now, I don't know about the rest of you women, but I've been looking for a pill that will make me more irritable, more depressed, help me to gain weight, and reduce my libido so I can have sex. And I'm sure all the men would like the woman he's dealing with to be more irritable, more depressed, gain weight more easily, and have a reduced libido, don't you? Now, why does the pill do this to a woman? Why does it do this to a woman? Well, the fact is that the pill makes a woman's body think it's pregnant. It gives it hormones that are there the first couple months of pregnancy. And women in the first couple months of pregnancy get irritable, depressed, gain weight, and have a reduced libido. And women are in this condition when they're on the pill, for week after week, month after month, year after year. It's an astonishing thing.
Most couples are frightened about using Natural Family Planning, and frightened is the right word. They are frightened of using Natural Family Planning and largely for two reasons. One is they think it doesn't work. But they are wrong. In an article in the British Medical Journal, September 18th, 1993, a doctor reviews the evidence on Natural Family Planning and says it's more effective than the most effective contraceptive. More effective! He cites studies from, of all places, Calcutta. And you know who it is who is teaching Natural Family Planning in Calcutta? A diminutive Catholic nun. The author has found out that most of those whom she teaches are Muslims and Hindus. Natural family planning has what is called, a virtual zero pregnancy rate, .004 pregnancy rate.

Still, such information doesn't seem to convince people. Many confuse NFP with the old 'rhythm method', which was some 27% ineffective. There is a huge difference between the 'rhythm method' and the modern methods of Natural Family Planning. I will give a review course on them in a minute.

The second reason that couples are afraid is the abstinence that is required. They think the abstinence will just be too hard. It's mostly the women who are afraid of it and they're afraid of it because of the males. They think, “My husband will get too irritable, he'll get too grumpy. He'll be removed and distant and won't be affectionate and will stay away from me during that time. And, how will we make up our fights? And, how will we talk? And I'm nervous about what's going to happen.” Men think they will feel greatly deprived. “Who can go that long; who can go seven to twelve days. It's not right. That's not what I got married for.” These fears are most common among those who have contracepted before marriage. Those who have used contraception before marriage and used contraception within marriage are very frightened of the abstinence because sex has become key to their relationship. They think that when you take the sex out of a relationship, where's the love going to be? Where's the intimacy going to be?

Couples who've abstained before marriage, have little or no problem with Natural Family Planning. Little or no problem. In fact, they think that abstinence is a way of expressing love. It's not this huge deprivation. The reason that they abstained before marriage was not because they weren't attracted to each other, not because the hormones weren't raging, but because they loved each other. They said, “I'm not going to have sex with you before marriage because I love you. I don't want to hurt you. I don't want to have a stronger commitment than I've made here. I don't want to put us in danger of having a baby when we haven't really prepared for that baby. Marriage is preparation for those bonds and marriage is preparation for that baby. And I love you and I can wait. That's how much I love you.” Within marriage, abstinence has that same aspect. “It's not a good idea for us to have a child right now. We can abstain. We did it before. We know how to show our affection at this time. We know how to be loving to each other at this time because we've done it before.” And they can do it.


http://www.omsoul.com/pamview.php?idnum=177

When use of the contraceptive pill saturated US society during the years 1960 through 1980, there was an increase in the US divorce rate that followed the increase in pill use with remarkable conformity. Various social scientists have concluded that this is no coincidence. This document includes a graph of the US divorce rate from 1880 to 2002 and a table of historical events of these times that shed some light on the story the graph tells.


http://www.statistics.gov.uk/cci/nugget.asp?id=326

In 2002/03 the contraceptive pill continued to be the most common method of contraception, used by 26 per cent of GB women aged 16 to 49. Sterilisation, of either the woman or her partner was used by 21 per cent, and the male condom by 19 per cent. These have remained the three most common methods of contraception since 1986.

The type of contraception that women use varies with their age. Women aged under 35 are more likely to use the pill than any other form of contraception, while the likelihood of a woman having been sterilised, or having a partner who has had a vasectomy, rises with age.

Between 1998/99 and 2002/03 the proportion of 16 to 17 year-olds using the pill increased from 17 per cent to 24 per cent. There were also rises among 30 to 34 year-olds (from 24 per cent to 28 per cent) and 45 to 49 year-olds (from 3 per cent to 9 per cent). In all other age groups the level of use remained similar to the 1998/99 level.
 


http://www.lifeissues.net/writers/zim/zim_103marriagecontra1.html

A very significant observation was made. by Nona Aguilar in the book No-Fill No-Risk Birth Controlconcerning couples who switched from artificial methods of contraception to the practice of natural family planning. It was only some months after they had switched that it became evident to them how their relationship had improved. For example, one summed up her reaction in a single sentence:, "'I now know the true meaning of the word 'intimate'."15

Drs. Charles and Elizabeth Rendu, whose experience in family counseling and the training of teachers of natural family planning is vast, tell how contraceptives tend to erode love in marriage:

Listening to many couples who have consulted us on family planning has revealed that contraceptives endanger conjugal love. After using them for two or three years, women (especially) complained of a cooling of mutual love, even though they had at first been happy to be able to prevent too-frequent pregnancies. Their language pointed to an objectification: "During intercourse I am only an object, a thing, a means, at the service of my husband's pleasure." And this attitude prevailed even among couples who continued to love each other.16

I have heard frequently in Japan that couples are not pleased with the condom, which is the chief method of birth control in this nation. Divorces are also increasing, from 114,000 in 1974 to 142,000 in 1980.17 The rate of divorces per 1,000 people is more than four times higher in the United States than in Japan: in 1980 it was 1.22 in Japan (17) and 5.4 in the United States.18 One cannot say absolutely, therefore, that contraception alone inevitably reflects itself in divorce statistics. Cultural, social, economic and legal considerations make divorce easier in some countries than in others.

Compared to the nations of the world the United States virtually leads the world in the practice of contraception, abortion, and sterilization (CAS). It is also a place where divorce is fashionable and easy to get, something which places the United States near the top of the heap in divorce statistics also. However, marital difficulties which do not end in the formal termination of divorce, go largely unreported, and these are presumably co-extensive, in greater or lesser degree, with the practice of CAS throughout the world.


http://www.census.gov/prod/2005pubs/p70-97.pdf

Age at First Marriage

Since the 1950s, the median age at first marriage has increased for both men and women, reaching 27 years for men and 25 years for women in 2003.3

Duration of Marriages

How long do marriages last? Table 2 shows that first marriages occurring during the peak of the baby-boom years (1955 to 1959) lasted longer than those occurring 20 years later (1975 to 1979) after enactment of new divorce laws. That is to say, a lower percentage of those in this later marriage cohort than baby-boom brides and grooms reached subsequent anniversaries. While 76 percent of men who married in 1955 to 1959 stayed married for at least 20 years, only 58 percent of men who married in 1975 to 1979 stayed married as long. However, for both men and women, marital longevity appears to have stabilized for marriages entered into since 1975 to 1979. For example, while the proportion of men and women who were married for at least 10 years fell for marriage cohorts from 1955 to 1959 through 1975 to 1979, for marriages contracted in 1985 to 1989, no further drop for men was noted while the proportion for women actually increased. For the 1985 to 1989 marriage cohort, 75 percent of people were still married after 10 years. The proportion reaching their fifteenth wedding anniversary increased for women married from 1975 to 1979 through the subsequent 5-year marriage cohorts. So while the data do not show large increases in marital longevity, they suggest that the trend toward shorter marriages may have ended for more recent marriage cohorts.

Interestingly the data shows a leveling of of divorce, which may mean the effects of the estrogen may have reached an equilibrium.